If you’re a couple with children, the end of your marriage is not the end.
It’s only the beginning of a long, delicate journey for both you and your family.
It’s a process that needs to be handled with care, sensitivity, and compassion.
That's why Arches was created.
Throughout the divorce process, the Arches team is there to ease tensions and guide you through the complexities of co-parenting and shared responsibilities.
We’re here to help you reach a safe, healthy space where you can communicate effectively—because a relationship with both parents is the most important gift you can give your children.
We help you communicate effectively with your ex-spouse, empowering you to interact independently in the future.
Case managers offer wraparound support in setting up a new life. We help you find jobs, housing, therapists, and anything else you might need to rebuild.
Our Rabbanim provide expert, objective guidance in resolving difficult issues that arise throughout the process.
After an intake call, you choose a subsidized package of services and a payment schedule.
Each of you meets with your case manager and/or parental coordinator to get to know each other.
For the first three months, the parental coordinator and case manager touch base with each of you several times a week to find out what you need. After that, they check in weekly. They are there to help, and we encourage you to reach out as needed.
The parental coordinator and case manager gradually help you transition to independent communication.
Rechy Zolty, founder of Bridges NJ, witnessed the damage a contentious divorce can wreak on a family. 65 percent of children involved in high-conflict custody cases become clinically anxious and demonstrate behaviors such as aggression, depression, and sleep disorders. 56 percent of these children develop attachment disorders that make it difficult for them to form healthy relationships.
Arches was created to solve this problem before it happens.
Arches Team Members envision a world where post-divorce care is a critical part of the process, paving the way for respectful communication between co-parents. Every child should be able to trust that both their parents truly love them, and prioritize their well-being over everything else. Arches makes that a reality by providing parents with objective guidance and support, allowing them to give their children the security and stability they need.
If you're a donor who cares deeply about keeping broken marriages from becoming broken families, Arches would be proud and grateful for your support.
These are the values that we operate by, allowing us to help you create a hopeful future for your family.
We recognize that there are two perspectives on every issue and we never take sides. Instead, we help both of you focus on your ultimate goal: your children's well-being.
We know a divorce leaves emotions raw. You have been through a lot, and we promise to always treat you with compassion, respect, and understanding.
What works for one family may not work for another. We will collaborate with you to determine the best solutions for your unique situation.
Our objective is for you to be able to communicate independently. Our process focuses on setting up the systems and foundations you need to get there.
Executive Director
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Parental Coordinator
Parental Coordinator
Case Manager
Divorce is always painful. But with the proper support, we believe that every member of your family can emerge healthy and strong.
Your children are counting on you.
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